Disabled or not “Love” is always over rated ….but we all think about that special person at one point of our life & being a person with disability I understand how difficult is to find a partner…you don’t know where to start & if you are put in the crowd you wonder if he/she is some where there & you have other things to deal then. it is tricky & scares the hell out of me because I am blind & am not sure how to choose some one to go out, then how to strike a conversation, how to find out what goes inside their mind etc etc….and so I feel am best left all alone.. I & Sreechand had a wonderful conversation on dating & romance few days back. Today he sends this article “Why should disability spell the end of romance.” & say’s Raghava, you remember our conversation?
It is tricky how relationships form & how they vanish over the time…in last few years I had some special girls in my life, fell in love with few of them, went on dates & scared the hell out of girls who thought & expected me to be some one else….one of my mentor come close friend said to me don’t get into this marriage thing until you are sure about a lot of things, I am seeing you for about 7yrs & as I see you are a bachelor who wants to be a bachelor…so find someone who also wants to be a bachelor too…she was true, I don’t like people too close to me & very far away from me.
When love arrives by Sarah Kay & Phil Kaye
Great Raghava that you started writing