Comments for Raghav's Blog http://raghava.in Experiential And Experimental Learnings Wed, 21 Mar 2012 18:55:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on 101 things to do before I die by raghava http://raghava.in/101-things-to-do-before-i-die/#comment-3120 raghava Wed, 21 Mar 2012 18:55:32 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=799#comment-3120 Hi Laxmi thanks a lot. Hi Laxmi thanks a lot.

]]> Comment on 101 things to do before I die by raghava http://raghava.in/101-things-to-do-before-i-die/#comment-3119 raghava Wed, 21 Mar 2012 18:54:56 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=799#comment-3119 Hey Ankita, If you put the list some where on the web do share it here please. Hey Ankita,
If you put the list some where on the web do share it here please.

]]> Comment on 101 things to do before I die by Laxmi Khatiwada http://raghava.in/101-things-to-do-before-i-die/#comment-3098 Laxmi Khatiwada Mon, 19 Mar 2012 18:39:40 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=799#comment-3098 Awesome list Raghav... like it... Awesome list Raghav… like it…

]]> Comment on 101 things to do before I die by Ankita http://raghava.in/101-things-to-do-before-i-die/#comment-3097 Ankita Mon, 19 Mar 2012 18:34:33 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=799#comment-3097 Awesome... absolutely fantastic till now. u just inspired me to come up with a list of my own !! :D Awesome… absolutely fantastic till now. u just inspired me to come up with a list of my own !! :D

]]> Comment on 101 things to do before I die by raghava http://raghava.in/101-things-to-do-before-i-die/#comment-3095 raghava Mon, 19 Mar 2012 18:07:36 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=799#comment-3095 Hey Aparna, You also got a amazing list . After reading i realized that i forgot about visiting the Disney land & horse riding. will add them into my list. Hey Aparna,
You also got a amazing list . After reading i realized that i forgot about visiting the Disney land & horse riding. will add them into my list.

]]> Comment on Why disability should scare you more than Osama Bin Laden by raghava http://raghava.in/why-disability-should-scare-you-more-than-osama-bin-laden/#comment-3087 raghava Mon, 19 Mar 2012 11:06:06 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=213#comment-3087 Hi jayshree I agree with your thoughts but what I went through in those interview rooms was out right discrimination. I am comfortable talking about my disability, but after 50interviews I can figure out the genuine HR professional who wants to hire me in spite of my disability & the HR who is going to put me through another stressful time. Hi jayshree

I agree with your thoughts but what I went through in those interview rooms was out right discrimination. I am comfortable talking about my disability, but after 50interviews I can figure out the genuine HR professional who wants to hire me in spite of my disability & the HR who is going to put me through another stressful time.

]]> Comment on Why I write a blog by raghava http://raghava.in/why-i-write-a-blog/#comment-3086 raghava Mon, 19 Mar 2012 10:47:50 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=776#comment-3086 Hey Vidya, I agree with your thoughts of keeping a personal dairy, due to the limitations i now prefer a blog & i am willing to teach you & other Enable Indian's about blogging. Hey Vidya,

I agree with your thoughts of keeping a personal dairy, due to the limitations i now prefer a blog & i am willing to teach you & other Enable Indian’s about blogging.

]]> Comment on Why I write a blog by Vidya Rao http://raghava.in/why-i-write-a-blog/#comment-3078 Vidya Rao Sun, 18 Mar 2012 14:28:20 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=776#comment-3078 Hey you crazy fellow! I completely agree with your thoughts on writing blog! I would love to have one for myself. I believe in writing personal diary, but lost touch quite a few years ago! I like some of your thoughts! Hey you crazy fellow! I completely agree with your thoughts on writing blog! I would love to have one for myself. I believe in writing personal diary, but lost touch quite a few years ago! I like some of your thoughts!

]]> Comment on Differentiating Ability & disability by sanjay http://raghava.in/differentiating-ability-disability/#comment-3054 sanjay Fri, 16 Mar 2012 12:20:16 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=817#comment-3054 great post great post

]]> Comment on Why disability should scare you more than Osama Bin Laden by Jayshree http://raghava.in/why-disability-should-scare-you-more-than-osama-bin-laden/#comment-3051 Jayshree Fri, 16 Mar 2012 06:11:23 +0000 http://raghava.in/?p=213#comment-3051 Do you think those HR personnel asked any wrong questions in the interview Or you took them wrongly? They might be checking your own comfort level with visual impairment and testing your boldness, confidence and zeal to work. They might wanted to know your reactions to those questions and how you would fit into their work environment. When they thrown problems at you, you could have come up with solutions. I know it is not easy as it seems while reading or writing this. But if you wants them to treat you normal, feel normal and show them why and how. I always wondered why some people get physical disability, the only answer I could get by myself is "Everybody has at least one great quality which makes him/her unique in this world. So when god can not put and fit those gem qualities and abilities into an individual or you can say abilities overflowed , he has to takeout something so that in overall person remains neutral". So disability in something makes us enable to do something we are able of. I know two girls who can not speak and partially deaf. I observed the one as silent and she didn't make friends and do not try to communicate. The other one was so talky that she would make friends easily and she would go to any lengths when she wanted to communicate. I used to talk her by signs and writing on the paper. Once I met her on road and when I dint get what she was trying to say by her signs and we don't have a paper to write. She did not show disappoints. She just bent down and started writing on the sand and so I started responding her. I observed that people around were looking at us strangely but my friend was very comfortable and didn't care about others and so I. After sometime people stopped staring and moved on when they understand how easily we can talk. She showed that she can speak to others despite of being mute, and so she is not mute anymore. She showed that she is not different than us and that helps me to treat her normal. So the issue is not being overweight, just feeling and making others believe that I am overweight. The moment I start feeling light inside as feather I am not overweight anymore. So when somebody comes any say you are overweight I don't feel bad, as I know how light I am. So when one wants to fight darkness, don't stand against it as it can not give you anything more than darkness itself, just make light your friend and you can see the sun shining in the sky no matter if other can't see what you see :) so keep seeing Do you think those HR personnel asked any wrong questions in the interview Or you took them wrongly? They might be checking your own comfort level with visual impairment and testing your boldness, confidence and zeal to work. They might wanted to know your reactions to those questions and how you would fit into their work environment. When they thrown problems at you, you could have come up with solutions. I know it is not easy as it seems while reading or writing this. But if you wants them to treat you normal, feel normal and show them why and how.

I always wondered why some people get physical disability, the only answer I could get by myself is “Everybody has at least one great quality which makes him/her unique in this world. So when god can not put and fit those gem qualities and abilities into an individual or you can say abilities overflowed , he has to takeout something so that in overall person remains neutral”. So disability in something makes us enable to do something we are able of.

I know two girls who can not speak and partially deaf. I observed the one as silent and she didn’t make friends and do not try to communicate. The other one was so talky that she would make friends easily and she would go to any lengths when she wanted to communicate. I used to talk her by signs and writing on the paper.

Once I met her on road and when I dint get what she was trying to say by her signs and we don’t have a paper to write. She did not show disappoints. She just bent down and started writing on the sand and so I started responding her. I observed that people around were looking at us strangely but my friend was very comfortable and didn’t care about others and so I. After sometime people stopped staring and moved on when they understand how easily we can talk. She showed that she can speak to others despite of being mute, and so she is not mute anymore. She showed that she is not different than us and that helps me to treat her normal.

So the issue is not being overweight, just feeling and making others believe that I am overweight. The moment I start feeling light inside as feather I am not overweight anymore. So when somebody comes any say you are overweight I don’t feel bad, as I know how light I am. So when one wants to fight darkness, don’t stand against it as it can not give you anything more than darkness itself, just make light your friend and you can see the sun shining in the sky no matter if other can’t see what you see :) so keep seeing

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